You are the only one who can stop you.There’s a long and strange history to the Sunday Night Football theme, but it’s coming full circle this year. So after you have seen your doctor, got your medications, and been medically cleared for what you wanna do, then go about doing it, and don't believe anybody that says you can't. It is said that the best cure for anxiety is action. Was it running? Did you enjoy feeling the wind rushing in your face? Was it acting? Did you enjoy being on stage? You can visualize the person you want to become, then set a plan in action to do it. Ask yourself what was it you enjoyed about it. What sort of things did you love to do when you were a kid. You can wake up tomorrow and say "I'm gonna be that." Or "I'm gonna do that." Then do it. Doing something you have never done before. There are so many podcasts out there that you can listen to on a daily commute or a walk outside. I would encourage you to listen to motivational books and tapes. You guys got to, you have to re - engage in life. So how do you climb out of the dark hole of self-hate? Check out 5 Things to Think or Do When You Hate Yourself. Isn't that incredible? That person, YOU, is worth loving. I ask myself, "Why should I hate someone God loves so much? Why should I slap Him across the face? He's the one who made me, and He did it for a very special reason." There is no one else in the whole world who is just like you or me. One thought that has helped me in this struggle is God's love for me. But it seems to always be there working in the shadows, waiting to pounce on us, and take us down. Some struggle with it more than others, to the point of depression and suicidal thoughts. The fight against self-hate is an on-going battle in all of us.
I know there is a hardworking, honest, skinny person inside me somewhere, but most of the time I think about how far to the negative I've come, then get even angrier at myself for not working harder to become the person I know I can be.
It's like the whole human race suffers from deep, low self-esteem. You see something about yourself that you think is stupid or ugly and you think criticizing yourself about it will somehow make it go away. Thinking poorly about yourself is kind of like self-rejection. He's right, it's not worth going crazy over something you really can't control. The freedom you experience when you let go of this burden like Tom did, will give you great joy. Don't let what other people think about you determine what you think of yourself. Sometimes when people experience rejection or abandonment, they turn the responsibility onto themselves, as if they are the ones who caused the pain. All the worst things came to mind, even though there was no way of actually knowing what people were thinking. I felt like people were constantly rejecting me. Tom wrote: I used to live consumed with thoughts about what everybody else was thinking about me. Not everybody is going to love you or accept you.īut it doesn't mean you're a bad person, and that you should hate yourself because of it. Rejection or AbandonmentĮveryone will experience rejection of some sort. You will look much better to yourself when you get some rest and forgive yourself for any mistakes. Sometimes you just need to give yourself a break and get some rest. It's important to remember that painful, challenging, and hard times are going to happen. Sometimes self-hate is emotional exhaustion from the blame game. This can leave us depleted of any kind of self-worth or love. When bad things happen, the worst thing you can do is spiral down into self-pity.
It's easy to let this blame turn into self-hatred and suck the very life out of us. When bad things happen, we often blame ourselves. Each of these could be their own articles. The majority of people said it was something about their appearance, followed closely by I didn't feel loved, and then I failed at a relationship. We took a poll and asked what reasons you might have to hate yourself. I believe you.Ĭaroline described her self-hatred like this: I hated myself because I thought I wasn't good enough to be in this world. You are miserable because of how you feel about yourself, even if it sounds exaggerated or overly dramatic. Others may think you are just crying out for attention. When you hate your life and yourself, it feels like you're in your own personal jail, full of self-loathing, desperately wanting to get out, but not believing they can. Do you hate yourself? It seems there are so many things in this world that attack our self-esteem and sense of worth. It's so tragic to hear someone say I hate myself. Do You Wonder Why You Hate Yourself Even When Others Like You?
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